The regular economy in which our lives are immersed is a “getting” economy. From the “consumer’s” point of view, the economy is where we “get” our means of life. We “get” our supplies from the supermarket, and we “get” our salary from our employer. The purpose of life is to “get” as much money as possible so that we can “get” all the wonderful stuff out there and have fun.

From the “vendor’s” point of view, the focus is also on “getting” — getting as much profit (money) as possible. The vendor/provider “buys” your money by offering goods and services. The money is the object, the goods and services the currency.

Get two for the price of one”, “get 20% off”, “get it before stocks run out”, “get 15% return on your investment”, “get loyal customers”. Get, get, get. The focus is always on the self-interested, separate individual or business competing against others in the marketplace.

The “giving” economy is where the sentiment is mutual aid: how can I provide what others require? The focus is on connection and the well-being of all. It is a circuit of giving and receiving, of balance and benefit all around.

Through the CES, we can make known our needs to connect with those who can satisfy them. The “reward” is the satisfaction of our needs, the pleasure of helping others and the establishment of a support network of trust and friendship.

Giving and receiving bring us together; buying and selling drive us apart.